The comeback

This isn't about boxing...or about a guy that became ill and could no longer play his sport and then was healed and played again. No. This is about that backdoor sexual activity that took a break..but is making a comeback. yup..thanks to a friend of mine for that term.

The comeback is a sexual phenomenon.  Anal sex was a popular activity- hetero and not hetero- for many years. Somehow it fell out of sight. Anal sex became a big taboo that good girls did to still feel virgin or bad girls did for fun. It was associated with risks and homosexuality (which was also taboo). Now its a popular thing again. Psychology Today and The New York Times have both reported rises in hetersexual anal sex, showing numbers of almost half of people have participated in...and possibly enjoyed anal sex.

My friend said that it has become an increasing request from her evening companions to the point where she thinks its on the verge of a comeback.Maybe we shouldn't call it a comeback..since its been here for years ;)   It was just a big secret...the fun gift that a lucky guy received for his good behaviour. The comeback is that it is now regular daily fun times.

Like any move not everyone likes it...so there needs to be some discussion and warm up prior to the act...work it out with your partner...no surprises, no problems

Tips from a lady:
1. Be assertive if you don't like it (if she/he respects you, s/he'll stop)
2. Relax if you want to try to enjoy it
3. Find a lube that you like (that part of the body is naturally dry)-->suggestions include Lube, JO H2O, and Liquid Silk...make sure you get a purse size bottle for those nights out...... (You never know)
4. Try starting off with a plug to help open the area...or at least work it slowly with a finger.

Yup...that's that.



Links
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201012/heterosexual-anal-play-increasingly-popular
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/04/26/health/research/26statistics.html?_r=0